SEVEN (7)REASON FOR PREMATURE EJACULATION

The Reason Behind Premature Ejaculation

Premature Ejaculation is known as one of the major sexual problems men have. However, this problem does not come to knowledge till a man start having sex with a woman and suddenly discovers that he needs to last longer in order to satisfy his woman.

As a result of this huge problem, many marriages and unions have been dissolved and this is causing a long term problem to the society at large. Some of the resultant effects of marital separation is ills acquired by children who come from broken homes. Some of such ills are crimes, prostitution, drugs, rebels, and vandalism.

What is Premature Ejaculation(P.E)?
Simply stated, Premature Ejaculation is the inability of a man to last long enough to satisfy his sexual partner. The question is;
Why do men not ‘naturally’ learn how to prolong their ejaculation?

Well, there are a lot of reasons. One of them is no one teaches the male child to control his ejaculation. However, there are some reflexes that are taught to children when they are growing. One of them is the ability to control urination. That is why a grown child goes to the toilet to urinate instead of doing it in his panties.

Another reason is most early experiences of sex starts with masturbation or even with sex partners which are done secretly and quickly for fear of being caught. These experiences has been known to condition some men’s sexual response to a pattern of quick ejaculation.

Possible Causes of Premature Ejaculation

You must understand that Premature Ejaculation is not an illness or a disease. It is a problem that can be conquered. Listed below are some of the reasons why people suffer from P.E.

Inexperience In Sex

As men age, they start to master, understand and learn to control their sexual reflexes. And this has a large impact on their sexual life. For a younger person who have not yet learn how to control these reflexes due to limited amounts of sex, premature ejaculation comes easily to those ones.

Performance Anxiety

Many men get so excited about the prospect of sex so much that they become too anxious on how best to satisfy their woman. When the mind is not relaxed and the focus is on the act of love making, this can cause an immediate Ejaculation.

Some Types Of Illnesses

Research studies have discovered that some people with some particular health conditions are prone to Premature Ejaculation than others. For example, People that are diabetic are more likely to experience P.E because of the high blood sugar level in their body. There are other health conditions that could trigger P.E.

Excessive Masturbation And Pornography

Most times, when a man watches a porn movie alone, he is prone to masturbate so that he can satisfy his sexual cravings. It has been observed that indulging in repeated masturbation can condition the body to ejaculate faster thus making the real experience of sex less satisfying when P.E sets in.

Psychological Barriers

From a developmental angle, premature ejaculation could be caused by a lack of Education on mind condition tricks that elicits ability to last longer. Ejaculation is, just like every other voluntary reflexes in the human body, something that can be learned to control.

Young Children are taught to control urination at an early age, that is why we are able to hold off urinating till we get to a toilet. That patience to hold on, is a learned experience which is lacking when it comes to ejaculation. Ejaculation is also a reflex. If you can control urination, you can also control ejaculation.

The problem is no one teaches young men how this is done, and even in adult education centers, this is not taught because of the cultural view we have about sex. Every man is left to discover how this is done by himself. Unfortunately, most men simply don’t have a clue on strategies to control their P.E problems.